Knowing Things Doesn’t Mean You Understand Them…

February 14, 2009 by budeen
Filed under: Life, Personal, education 

There’s a thin line between knowing and understanding.. :)

When someone had difficulty or misfortune in life, we will say something nice to calm them down. We know it’s hard for them, but deep inside the person’s heart, nobody really understand how it feels. Until one day when you get the chance to experience it yourself…

When we were a kid, we hate being forced by our parents to do this and that… When mother pinched us for throwing food to the floor, we know she’s angry but we don’t really understand why… When father caned us for breaking the neighbours’ window, we know he’s mad but we don’t really understand why… Sometimes we ponder ourselves, yes we know study is important, but we don’t really understand why…

When my eldest brother got married, I feel he’s not interested spending time with me anymore. I was wrong. That time I know he’s busy with family & kids. What I don’t understand is how tough to manage them all. A married man has wife, kids and in-laws besides his own family and career to think of…

Today, when I look back those days, I start to understand things like never before. Thank God for giving me the chance to learn by experiences… 

 

I don’t think my younger siblings & kids would understand certain things or decisions I made in life, but they will certainly learn the same way.. :)

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41 Comments on Knowing Things Doesn’t Mean You Understand Them…

  1. hydir on Sat, 14th Feb 2009 5:00 pm

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  2. budeen on Sat, 14th Feb 2009 5:39 pm

    3. @ hydir, guidance from them is crucial in paving our path.. experience on the other hand is something money cant buy.. :)

  3. Callister on Sat, 14th Feb 2009 7:45 pm

    4. wah..sgt puitis….
    yeah kita sume belajar dr pengalaman…

  4. budeen on Sat, 14th Feb 2009 7:51 pm

    5. Callister, puitis ke? hehe.. tak sengaja tu.. :)

  5. samdaddycool on Sat, 14th Feb 2009 8:45 pm

    6. It is good to learn it from experience. Your journey brings maturity in life. It’s hard to believe what we’ve gone through all those stages now..

    Wise decision comes with maturity..

  6. zool on Sat, 14th Feb 2009 9:20 pm

    7. Betul2..
    Kadang2 kita tak boleh nak memahami orang lain dan pentingkan perasaan sendiri.

  7. budeen on Sat, 14th Feb 2009 11:43 pm

    8. @ sam, yup! looking back what we’ve gone thru is sometimes the best teacher..

    @ zool, that’s sth we have to learn in life.. rite? :)

  8. KNizam on Sun, 15th Feb 2009 12:35 am

    9. betul !
    kadang apa yang kita buat org tak paham
    ala bukannya senang kan nak puaskan hati semua pihak. hehe :)

  9. budeen on Sun, 15th Feb 2009 12:38 am

    10. @ knizam, kekadang apa yg org buat pun kita tak paham.. so end up misunderstanding.. hmmm..

  10. Armand on Sun, 15th Feb 2009 2:10 am

    11. As my teacher and every body said that experience is the best teacher. People will learn and understand about things they didn’t know as they grow up…

  11. budeen on Sun, 15th Feb 2009 2:13 am

    12. @ Armand, you are absolutely right.. :D

  12. adi on Wed, 18th Feb 2009 12:22 am

    13. “When my eldest brother got married, I feel he’s not interested spending time with me anymore. I was wrong.”

    you know what..
    i felt the same way too..
    perhaps everybody in the famly feels the same way as we did..
    plus..i felt the same way too when my 1 other brother got married too..
    it’s ok 4 me..i could make them as my role models actualy
    haha hmm..
    when am i gonna get married??
    i wonder..

  13. budeen on Wed, 18th Feb 2009 5:25 pm

    14. @ adi, see… i’m not wrong… but u will understand better one day.. trust me! ;)

  14. adi on Wed, 18th Feb 2009 7:23 pm

    15. its ok..
    i’m learning..
    learning really take time..
    learning process is never ending process..

  15. azwan on Fri, 20th Feb 2009 10:48 pm

    16. if you cant listen to anyone, listen to your experience.

  16. zceo on Fri, 20th Feb 2009 11:13 pm

    17. haha… budeen and adi,

    baru terbaca pasal ni…

    Tak sangka macam tu korang rasa. Tapi yes, that’s right Budeen…when we are there, then we’ll know. But deep inside, we’re still good brothers, ain’t it?

    Adi,
    So, now you are left with one more brother and i more sister who are not yet married…. And focus on your study + “important hobby” before thinking about getting married.

  17. budeen on Sat, 21st Feb 2009 7:30 am

    18. @ azwan, true.. thank you :)

    @ zceo, as time goes by we’ll learn things more from experience.. and of course we’re still good brothers.. no argument on that.. :)

  18. adi on Sun, 22nd Feb 2009 8:32 am

    19. hoho good brothers eh??
    so,bile nk main bola lg ni??
    2 lwn 2??
    dah bnyk thun x main ni..
    ssh laa org kalo dah ade ank bini..
    hahahaha

  19. adi on Sun, 22nd Feb 2009 8:41 am

    20. @zceo & @budeen: SOMETIMES,i don’t really care bout having brothers or sister bcoz i rather live my own kife with the help from parents..haha sometimes its cool u know being the youngest..parents always give what we demand..surely i’ve earn many things that both of u never earn…hahahahahahahaha

  20. budeen on Sun, 22nd Feb 2009 10:06 am

    21. @ adi, then enjoy your moment to the fullest..:)

  21. earnword on Wed, 25th Feb 2009 11:42 am

    22. nak wat camana. memang dah macam tu..

  22. budeen on Wed, 25th Feb 2009 12:11 pm

    23. @ earnword, pasrah jela kan? hehe..

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